Ubersexuals: The New American Man?

Forget “metrosexuals.” The hot new man in town is the “ubersexual.”

That’s right, just when you thought you finally understood the metrosexual trend, it turns out that the new uber male not only exudes confidence and leadership, but-and this may be the crucial difference-does it all while still embracing his masculinity. In other words, as one trend spotter recently put it, ubers mark “the return of ‘The Real Man’ of yesteryear.”

So the burning question is: How else does an uber differ from a metrosexual?

Well, both groups have female friends; however, an ubersexual’s best pals are males, while a metrosexual’s are females.

Both ubers and metros may groom themselves with expensive products-in fact, nearly two out of three men recently surveyed said they own and consistently use a variety of grooming products. The difference is that you won’t catch an ubersexual highlighting, waxing or self-tanning.

One thing ubers and metros do have in common is a love of pearly white teeth-and as far as ubers are concerned, the whiter, the better. In fact, one survey found that 70 percent of them think white teeth go hand in hand with great hairstyles when it comes to the top two most important facial features. Yet, three out of four ubers admit their teeth “could be whiter.”

The same survey found that ubers had no qualms about strolling into a store to pick up a personal grooming product such as Crest Whitestrips Premium. To add an especially “uber-masculine” twist to the strips, men sometimes put them on for 30 minutes, twice a day, while watching sports on TV. They get a whiter smile in just three days, with full results in seven.

Women looking for just the right uber may want to take note of the survey, too. Nearly half of men stressed that white teeth are a deciding factor when asking a woman on a second date. Also, one in five men said they absolutely couldn’t kiss someone with yellow teeth.


What Kawaii Shoes Can Do For You and Your Sex Life

The concept of kawaii refers to the distinctive Japanese culture of cute. A quick history lesson will tell you that connotations of the term have changed over the years, from a derogatory term once used to refer to shameful behavior, to the ´80s when the term was then used to refer to a beautiful girl.  Sexuality in Japan has an interesting history, with monogamy holding less importance than other countries in Asia. Sexual activity here also includes popular BDSM fetish shibari, and lolicon which depicts an attraction to younger looking girls.

It has been said that the influential artist Rune Naito helped orchestrate this transition through his work, which enhanced the ´cuter´ features in his subjects (e.g., big eyes). As with any artist trying out something new, people were curious but remained cautious of his style. However, it didn’t take long for the drawings to become popular, even resulting in an altered perception of what people found attractive throughout Japan. Furthermore, artists such as Macoto Takahashi and Masako Watanabe were well-known for drawings which blended cute with erotic, and innocence with sexualism. This change was really symbolic for women, empowering them and their sexuality.


Similar to DDLG, kawaii focuses on the childlike nature of a woman. More specifically, kawaii shoes have a distinctive innocence about them that would be difficult to place anywhere else. In fact, you may be forgiven for thinking you might find these kawaii shoes in a theatre, or some other extravagant show. Usually pastel in colour and cartoon-clunky in shape, they are certainly childlike in appearance but with a heel that gives them an erotic edge – enhanced further, of course, by short dresses and flamboyant make up. If you are seeking something a little different from the conventional ´little girl´ look that other BDSM desires incorporate, buying a pair of kawaii shoes and building an enigma and pursuing your wildest age regression fantasies.

Japan is also relatively well-known for its foot fetishes, which may explain the sexualisiation of the kawaii shoe as a prop or accessory in BDSM or other sexual play. Similar to the infamous stiletto heel, which is considered a highly sexualised accessory, the kawaii shoe can also set the scene for a particular kind of sexual preference (e.g., the aforementioned lolicon fetish) and great example can be found at littlespace.life. Indeed, popular culture tends to market shoes as being sexy anyway – with adverts often depicting feminine shoes as sexy.

Indeed, the prevalence of foot and shoe fetishes is very high, with some of the most common internet searches (in fact, if you search for fetish online, you are most likely to find foot fetish material) and popular TV shows incorporating the idea into story lines (think: Charlotte in Sex and The City). This has grown from the romanticising literature from the 13th Century, and later in the 19th Century Students in Central Europe would drink wine from their lover´s shoe as a symbol of their devotion.You might, however, be more inclined to be stepped on or watch someone do so on someone else.



DDLG Fetish– What is it and Why Should You Try It?

DDLG stands for Daddy Dom Little Girl and represents the power dynamic between a dom (i.e., the caregiver, or daddy) and a sub (i.e., the cared for, or little). A type of role play and subcategory of BDSM, DDLG explores the realms of age play and regression more generally. To be clear, it is not an indication of paedophilia! Rather the DDLG fetish is something that can be explored for a few hours with or without sex, and can be nurtured into a permanent lifestyle.


A Daddy Dom´s primary role is to provide unconditional care to his little. He assumes the role of a regular guardian, which might include responsibilities from protection to devotion. Far more than just sex, the role brings with it huge responsibilities. His primary objectives might be to ensure that his little is eating well, that she opens up if something is making her unhappy, and that he punishes her if she has been naughty (not necessarily sexual, he might just make her do the hoovering). These punishments are not intended to be enjoyed by either party.

0Similar to the Master-slave concept, the play does not have to be gender specific – with mummy-little boy relationships becoming just as frequent. In fact, the only criteria requires that there is a dom and a sub – there does not even need to be an age gap.


A little is a combination of sexy and cute, and is completely devoted to her daddy. Unlike the power dynamic in a Master-slave play, the main difference in DDGL is the childlike nature of the sub, and the age play that can be incorporated more generally. For example, instead of being punished physically, she might be sent to bed without dessert.

Expectations of a little are also different from other subs since the focus is more on care and nurture than on sexual pleasure. She enjoys more childlike activities and wearing more childlike clothes. However, not all littles enjoy age play, and not all age players are submissive. However, for those that do enjoy the elements of age play, they tend to adopt a persona of a certain age, and engage in age appropriate (childish) activities.

Although pet names are common during sex, the term daddy seems to be the most well-known and also the most taboo. It is important to acknowledge that not everyone is comfortable saying it – and that it is completely okay! DDLG play is flexible and so you might want to try out something like papa, papi, mister, sir etc. to avoid any discomfort little space life

DDGL fetish then, is a subcategory of BDSM which focuses on caregiving, with the occasional spanking thrown in for good measure if so desired.  The play does not necessarily involve sex in any way – it might simply be a means for you to escape reality. Regardless, there are various online forums which can help you to learn more and where you can meet like-minded people.

Cock Rings Sex Toy For Men

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm. Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a long time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber. Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit. For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely. Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.


Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect. Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space. The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard. Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too.

Adult-oriented stores with genital jewelry departments sometimes have fitting rooms where you can try on merchandise. If you’re into advanced planning, you, or your partner, can measure your penile girth, or approximate how many of your fingers bunched together equal the thickness of their fleshy friend. The flexibility of rubber and other elasticized cock rings allows a greater range of fit for more differently endowed men, but they are not one-size-fits-all.

For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly. If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight. In that case, take the cock ring off immediately. It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold. In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage. An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection. This is called priapism, a prolonged erection. Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue. If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.

Another place you might want to forgo a cock ring around your penis is the airport. In these high-security times, metal detectors will catch some of these penis-erectors that are tricky to explain and/or remove for closer inspection.

Why petplay is seemingly becoming more of a norm in the society?

World is a very mysterious thing. There are so many people that one simply cannot fathom the whole humanity. It should be pretty obvious that such a big number of individuals means that there are millions of hobbies and preferences. And one of the preferences that a lot of people do not really want to talk about is sex and fetishes. Sure, when it comes to general public, there is hardly anything specific. After all, it would seem that the majority of people like to have, what we think, usual things. You know, male and female, and so forth. However, there are still quite a few who are not what you would consider to be a norm. Societies differ from one region to the next, but it would seem that the western world is much more liberal when it comes to fetishes and such. You might not have heard about it if you are not into this sort of thing, but petplay is a thing. What the hell is that? Well, we will try to answer it in this relatively short article. For further information and insight, you can check out Butt Plug Expert’s collection here: https://buttplug.expert/product-category/tail-butt-plugs/


First of all, you need to be open-minded and understand that this is not what a lot of people are doing. However, since there are plenty of shops, particularly online, it would seem like having to dress up as a pet is not one of those things that might seem completely mad. And we are not talking about dressing up for a party, like a Halloween, or a mascaraed. But rather using it as a sexual thing, for butt. That is right. It might sound like something out a porn or an animated cartoon from Japan. But these things do happen. If you have your doubts, you should do a quick search on Google or any other search engine and you will see that there are more than enough online shops who offer such products. And if you were to delve even deeper, then it becomes clear that there are certain niches, which are extremely specific, and that people are enjoying themselves no matter what the society might be thinking about them.

And yes, it should be totally clear why such things exist mostly on the internet. It would be rather awkward to go to a store that sells these locally. Discretion is one of the key things that people are looking for when they are buying these types of items online.

So to sum everything up, petplay is definitely not what a lot of you are familiar with at all. However, it is still a niche that has a certain number of a clientele. So despite what you might think, there are and will be room for it in the future. Check it out here: